几分钟最佳？
Sex therapists: A few minutes is bestBy MEGAN K. SCOTT, Associated Press Writer
Thu Apr 3, 11:39 AM ET
NEW YORK - Maybe men had it right all along: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed. A survey of sex therapists concluded the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes. The findings, to be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, strike at the notion that endurance is the key to a great sex life.
If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."
Researcher Eric Corty said he hoped to ease the minds of those who believe that "more of something good is better, and if you really want to satisfy your partner, you should last forever."
The questions were not gender-specific, said Corty (who, it must be noted, is male). But he said prior research has shown that both men and women want foreplay and sexual intercourse to last longer.
Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, cited a four-week study of 1,500 couples in 2005 that found the median time for sexual intercourse was 7.3 minutes. (Women were armed with stopwatches.)
It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer, said Marianne Brandon, a clinical psychologist and director of Wellminds Wellbodies in Annapolis, Md.
"There are so many myths in our culture of what other people are doing sexually," Brandon said. "Most people's sex lives are not as exciting as other people think they are."
Fifty members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research in the U.S. and Canada were surveyed by Corty, an associate professor of psychology at Penn State Erie, The Behrend College, and student Jenay Guardiani. Thirty-four members, or 68 percent, responded, although some said the optimal time depended on the couple.
Corty said he hoped to give an idea of what therapists find to be normal and satisfactory among the couples they see.
"People who read this will say, 'I last five minutes or my partner lasts 8 minutes,' and say, 'That's OK,'" he said. "They will relax a little bit."
纽约—或许男人们一直是对的：并不要在床上花费很长时间去满足女士。一项性爱调查得到了这样的结论,最佳的性交时间为3至13分钟。这项结论企图打破“最好的性生活的关键是持久”概念,它将刊登在5月号的性医学杂志上。
如果这听起来对你像是个好消息,那也不要叫太大声。这个时间并不包括前戏,并且临床医生认为性交持续1至2分钟也有些"太短" 了。
研究员Eric Corty说,他希望以减少那些相信"好东西越多越好,如果你真的想要满足你的伴侣,你应该永远坚持下去" 的想法。
Corty说(但必须指出的是他是男性)这些问题不是特定性别的。但他说,以前的研究显示,男人和女人都想要前戏和性交上持续更长的时间。
,性医学杂志的编辑Irwin Goldstein博士表示：引用了在2005年对于1500对夫妻长达4周的一项研究，这一研究发现这1500对夫妻的平均性爱时间是7.3分钟(妇女手持秒表) 。
对于年长和青年男子来说,使性交持续更久是困难的，一个临床心理学家及wellminds wellbodies在安纳波利斯,马里兰州的董事Marianne Brandon说,。
"在我们的文化中有那么多关于性爱的神话"布兰顿说。 "大多数人的性生活是没有其他人认为的那么好的" 。
美国宾州大学behrend学院心理学副教授corty和学生jenay Guardiani为了性治疗和研究在美国和加拿大调查了五十个社会成员。 34成员,即68 %,给出了回应,虽然有些人说最佳时机取决于对夫妇本身。
Corty 表示“他希望那些正常和理想的夫妻们去了解这个观念”。
“人们读了这个会说, '我持续了五分钟或我的伴侣持续了8分钟,那就够了。”corty说。 "他们将会放松一点点" 。 说的有道理啊啊 没看明白，到底是多少时间！ :handshake :victory: :victory: :handshake :lol :) 还以为30分钟呢
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